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Q

My boyfriend and I are going out for 9 months. I love him so much and we have had rough times but these days I‘m starting to think that he is cheating on me. There are rumours that he kissed my friend. He says it’s not true and I believe him ‘cos I know my friend wouldn’t do it and he doesn’t want to hurt me, so he told me to not listen to the rumours. It is very difficult and I’ve been trying to ignore the stories for a long time, as there have been so many, because people have been trying to break us up for months. I think the rumours came from my ex-friend ‘cos she is jealous that all her friends and her ex-boyfiend picked me and not her! I really don’t know what to do anymore so if you can, PLEASE HELP ME!!!

A

This is a difficult one – who do you trust. There is a saying: “when someone shows you who they are, believe them.” If the rumours are consistent and continuous maybe they are true.  The best thing you could do is to find out if it is true. Talk to people, ask questions.

At the end of the day you must answer only one question – Do I trust my boyfriend? If the answer is no then you need to consider what you are going to do. Trust is the number one criteria you need for a successful relationship.

Q

I’m 18-years-old and have a crush on a guy I have always adored. He confronted me and told me that he loves me and that made me happy, but the problem with this guy is that he is dating the hottest girl and I’m not fit enough to compete with her. I really love the guy and I don’t want to be hurt. I don’t know what to do please help me!

A

If he loves you he will leave her to be with you. If he is playing with you he will not leave her and wants something else from you.

Being hot is not the only thing that makes someone attractive. Stop comparing yourself. If he loves you it is because you have something special and you certainly can compete with any girl.

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There’s a guy at our school, he’s in grade 11 and I’m 16. He is really good-looking and quiet. I noticed him a while ago but never had the courage to talk to him. I asked my friend for his number and I started talking to him via Mxit, but he didn’t know who I was. At school I tried to talk to him but I would only get a word or two out. I’m very clumsy and I fall a lot and he laughs when I do. I finally told him who I was and he recognised me. We had a fun day that Friday and one of my friends knows that I like him, and she promised she would organise something, but that whole Friday she hung on him in front of me and stuff. We spoke a bit but I really don’t know what he thinks of me and I don’t know if I stand a chance. I don’t know what to do… HELP!!

A

Have you ever heard the story of the tortoise and the hare? The tortoise wins the race because he is steady and slow in his approach. If he really enjoyed talking with you continue doing this. Build your friendship with him. The best relationships often start from friendship.

As for your friend! Be careful! It seems as if she is not really trustworthy.

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My twin sis is dating this guy whom I think is a pig! He is disrespectful, has no manners and doesn’t deserve her and is 2 years YOUNGER than her! I really don’t approve and every time I tell her she screams at me, and it’s ruining our twin relationship!!!

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This is a difficult one – when someone you love is with someone you dislike but I think you already realise that your approach is not working. Unfortunately there may be nothing you can do until she sees his true colours. Don’t risk your relationship with her over this guy. Be there for her. Build her self-esteem and talk to her about what she deserves in a man.

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There is this girl at my village… and she has dated all my ex boyfriends right after they broke up with me. It really bothers me because we were once friends. A while back her BF (my ex) was waiting for her when I saw him and we had a conversation. She was angry when she arrived, so I left because I did not want to disturb them… I later heard she accused us of still dating. Now she doesn’t even talk to me and acts as if I am the one dating her exes… Do you think I am reading too much into it? Has this girl the same taste in guys as me or is she trying to be like me, because her dress sense is becoming more like mine each day? Worried ex gf

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It sounds as if this behaviour is more about her insecurities than you. If she is trying to be like you that is a flattering thing. She quite possibly has the same taste in men as you – which is not impossible. I think that you should not worry about this girl. She does not impact your life unless you let her. As for you being friends with her – she does not seem like the kind of friend you want. Ignore her and keep her out of your life. And as for her dating your ex’s – that should not mean anything to you. They are ex’s for a reason.

Trusted advice from people who care at Dynamic Intervention!

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