Q: I have a crush on a guy, but he has a girlfriend. He also told me one he doesn’t like me like that. We text each other some days, and whenever he doesn’t text me, I miss him a lot. My BFF is friends with him and I get jealous sometimes. I want to make a move on him, since his girlfriend is moving away next year. Any advice?
A: The first thing to consider in this question is what you values are. For instance, do you value loyalty, faithfulness, honesty and friendship? Because if the answer to any of these is yes, then going after someone else’s boyfriend means you compromise these! Would you want someone to do this to you? I think you’ve answered your own question by now. Our advice? Continue being friends and enjoying this aspect of the relationship until it’s more appropriate to pursue him.